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No, I don't think it explains much, at all. I think it explains something about the speaker's insecurities. I think that if race is on your mind a lot, that your anxieties will be about race. But if you have some other trauma, then that will be what your anxieties will be about. So I don't think that this has anything to do with race, but with insecurity.
All people of all races have insecurities.
There's a reason people who aren't the majority race often have race top of mind.
Okay, I'll bite. What's the reason?
Maybe you should ask someone who's experienced it.
I have. So I can ask myself.
But isn't there also a reason why religious minorities often have that? Cultural? Gender? Sexual?
Sure. It's useful to consider the difference when the minority status is noticeable only after conversation and intimate contact (many religious ones; sexual ones; cultural ones) vs when it's immediately noticeable to anyone in visual range, but any difference can lead to different affordances in interaction.
[race is] immediately noticeable to anyone in visual range
That’s the point I didn’t bother enough to mention myself, thanks
But to be fair, @optimism also has a point.
These insecurities aren’t limited to race, since, as he mentioned, every race everyone has insecurities, which might also come from fear of losing your job, and we don’t want to accidentally cause a conflict, so we tend to overcorrect for niceness.
But since race is immediately obvious to anyone, I think everyone has experience with this “anxious niceness” in that context, which is why the talk focused on that.
Thinking more about this, this topic also seems very related to the second season of The Rehearsal about aviation safety (first officer being too nice / not assertive enough even though the captain is obviously about to kill everyone on board).
Doesn't this explain it?