Yes, for a public node, yes. For a private one is enough 1M to start.
Depends what do you mean as "password"
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Yes is possible but not really lost, only that you cannot access them, are in a zombie channel. Sometimes is possible to recover the access but only with knowledge and hood tools. So start reading and learn more.
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