but it seems like if I say something stupid there (which is often) it seems like a capital offense.
You probably referring to some specifics, I feel you, we know... Just know that there are no stupid questions, questioning and satisfy our own personal curiosity is what enable us grow our kowledge and understanding of this world. Don't be shy asking questions, and just because someone know more than other in a specific field does not allow them to treat others in a discriminatory way.
In the other way is about you, and try to don't take things personally. The internet is just a commonplace where personal background, culture, and other aspects are usually not considered.
You probably referring to some specifics, I feel you, we know... Just know that there are no stupid questions, questioning and satisfy our own personal curiosity is what enable us grow our kowledge and understanding of this world. Don't be shy asking questions, and just because someone know more than other in a specific field does not allow them to treat others in a discriminatory way.
In the other way is about you, and try to don't take things personally. The internet is just a commonplace where personal background, culture, and other aspects are usually not considered.