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Too black and white. If the male is hetero, sexual thoughts may certainly arise with female friends; doesn't mean they ever intend to act on it.

I'd say your father is right to teach caution, but a bit too extreme in how he phrases it.

In my view, discussing human relationships is a complex matter because we don't all share the same tastes, values, or upbringing, and we have all grown up in different contexts. Yes, my dad takes a simplistic view of the subject; I suppose that, based on his own perspective and history, he has concluded that heterosexual men and women cannot truly be friends.

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