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strong men are usually building up from the ruins of bad times.... and it might not be obvious to them

Yes! I'm fact I think the strong men might not be strong men if they feel like they are strong men. For times to be hard enough to produce strong men, they need to probably feel pretty awful.

I don't think the privates in the trenches of WWI or on the beaches of WWII felt like strong men (see Catch 22 or Storm of Steel). It seems much more likely that the men always feel like they are struggling.