You are worried too much for nothing. You also do not take in consideration other aspects:
in the Bitcoin standard, people will spend less, only when they really need it. That means less transactions (compared with other payment networks).
BTC and LN will always improve. We are just being starting, is too early right now, LN is only 4 years old, is just a small kid, barely starting to walk.
You are worried too much for nothing.
You also do not take in consideration other aspects: