Saw this type of behavior my whole career. Not in programming but the ancient art of civil engineering
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Absolutely but in my experience you can be open and collaborate or closed off and EXTREMELY arrogant
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Most likely everywhere. I know musicians who are like that too. They like to analyze everything & forget to actually listen to the music!
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I also see this in everyday life. Sometimes I feel like the world is broken into two groups: those who do, and those who criticize. It just feels that way. Plenty do both.
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Social media (trad at least) is rife with both, but tends to reward those who criticize the most. So backwards.
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Sometimes I find it difficult to make decisions when leading, but find it very easy to critique the same decision if someone else made it. I think it’s a mental thing. But I don’t let that stop me from taking lead
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