Like when I was a riled up atheist. I like the Atheist Experience old school format. Many people telling them that's not how to talk to non atheist but personally, that rude form was the final nail on the coffin for me.

Meaning different people have different trigger points or aha moments or eureka. We just need to cover all the bases, let some talk nice, some fast, some confusing, some rude way of talking to others, just not violent.