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Every single time there is a group to share info or whatever, it's done on whatsapp. I can see most people are not even on Telegram and I don't even want to try to drag them, cause it has most of the same issues in whatsapp, just from the ruskies.
I even met someone the other day and we were about to share contact details, and he handed me his phone with the instagram open ffs, like "aren't you on ig? you live on a cave?" And if it's a girl, they think you're cheating. Can I go back to normieland?