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2106 sats \ 21 comments \ @NoStranger 29 Nov 2023 meta

I like to build things and share them, but I prefer to keep my identity concealed behind an alias when doing so. I just like the idea that, if you don't know someone's identity, you'll value their work just for the results they managed to share and nothing else.

Of course this could be a minus in some cases, like if you make something nice and you can't showcase it because that author of said work is not your current "you" (imagine a work related situation).

I think that when people interact with each other, they speak and act accordingly to the "persona" they had build up while socializing with a certain group of people. Be it family, friends, coworkers or strangers. Just think of when you had friend over at home or when you met some family members at your workplace, if it happened, you might've had some awkward moments trying to not make yourself look odd to everyone.

Maybe it's because of my past experience that I think like this but, from time to time, it comes to mind that there are someone like "Satoshi Nakamoto" that made a work of art and then faded in the wind, without glory and without bias, people just saw the work he did and nothing more, acknowledging his creation it wholly.

I'd love to know more from you, about how you manage to present yourselves to the world.

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86 sats \ 1 reply \ @Zepasta 29 Nov 2023

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21 sats \ 0 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

I understand, I did it too.

In my case it's more of a relationship issues if it leaks out, as I, even if anonymous, don't like to leave too much of an impact as it can be a burden to manage for me in some cases.

Also, using an alias that features some highly generic keywords is a pretty smart move!

113 sats \ 1 reply \ @BitByBit21 29 Nov 2023

I choose to conceal my identity mainly because of security reasons. I live in a country where being a bitcoiner means to have a target on your back, either from the Government or from people who wants to take advantage of it. However, wearing a mask has allowed me to express my views freely and unencumbered. Being an introvert by nature, I feel much more empowered if I don't have to show my actual identity to other people.

21 sats \ 0 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

That's good, I feel the same way!

I might have never shared anything I've posted and discussed here if I wasn't anonymous.

61 sats \ 11 replies \ @elvismercury 29 Nov 2023

Some related ideas here from a discussion yesterday.

249 sats \ 10 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

I haven't seen it yet, really nice article.

I think your discussion differ a bit from mine, while you talk about how long should online content be kept around, I'm talking about removing my identity from the work I did.

In my case, if the content I've made can damage me or put my current opinions on the stakes somehow, it wouldn't matter much to the current "me", whether it's been archived forever or forgotten entirely, it wouldn't matter much since there won't be any connection to my person.

For that reason, personally I think the content and ideas I shared in the past can be kept forever without issues.

As @Onions said, an identity can be one of many and could be kept or abandoned anytime without any consequences.

50 sats \ 1 reply \ @SatsforStats 29 Nov 2023

Why would you disconnect your actual "you" from your work. In some cases this seems reasonable. Like Satoshi. I think in his case it makes sense to the decentralization aspect. It depends. if it enhances the result, the thing you want to achive with your work, then you should remove your person. In my opinion you should stand for what you create. The good sruff, the bad stuff and the silly stuff. Why? Because you personally grow form that. The best storys you can tell are the ones where you proudly tell how miserable you failed and what you have learned from that.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

I agree, but nothing stop you from using your alias to tell that story.

The main idea for me is to keep them separate to have others see your work, not "you".

One can also make an temporary alias to test things out, then if it works, connect it the the main "you" or shared alias to show ownership of the content.

I've seen writers do that, for example.

50 sats \ 7 replies \ @elvismercury 29 Nov 2023

I think your discussion differ a bit from mine, while you talk about how long should online content be kept around, I'm talking about removing my identity from the work I did.

Yup, understood. They're not the same, just, like, cousins or something :)

As @Onions said, an identity can be one of many and could be kept or abandoned anytime without any consequences.

This one I will push back on. Some identities, in some contexts, can certainly be abandoned. But in some, an identity is a thing that accrues capital. Human civilization is entirely built on the idea that there is a you and it accrues reputation over time -- are you someone I trust, want to interact with? Are you an enemy? Identity is at the heart of all that. Modernity has done weird things to that idea, sometimes for the good, sometimes not. In many cases, abandoning an identity is a profound loss.

Now that I put it that way, seems like another cousin is this morning's post. If we separate our identities from the "real" us, what are the consequences?

278 sats \ 5 replies \ @Zepasta 29 Nov 2023

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98 sats \ 3 replies \ @elvismercury 29 Nov 2023

Indeed. In my experience, it's a question of how much time you want to allocate to such things. A person can become someone others find worth listening to, which can take months or years. If circumstances dictate that that reputation is lost, re-establishing it takes months or years, again. The intervening time is ... unpleasant.

Perhaps one day you'll write a retrospective, after a series of identities. That would be an interesting post.

228 sats \ 2 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

It's true, starting over again can take a long time, but surely you're not actually stating entirely from scratch.

Sometimes you can find people who seems to be capable of amazing feats like nothing, those are often people who have background experience that you'll never know that forged them in a way that let them stand out from the crowd.

I'm also interested in reading such stories from those people, here on SN or anywhere really.

50 sats \ 1 reply \ @elvismercury 29 Nov 2023

It gets kind of nuanced in defining what "from scratch" means.

I still have my brain and experiences, but (in these cases) I no longer have the shared context with people. They don't know how to evaluate me. So then I behave like myself in the new context, and over time they come to value that however much they do. But, during the times when I've actually done this, I've been surprised every time with just how long it takes; or flipped around: surprised at how valuable that common context and experience is, how much it's practically worth in any complex environment.

There are some environments where you can imagine this working much faster, e.g., if the only expression of who you are is with git checkins or something, you might quickly get a sense of how much a person is to be trusted. Most of human interaction is much less that way, though. I think people are often mistaken about the extent that this is true.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

Well, everything is highly personal here.

Some could go for a clean state, while others might use their previous identity as a base or even going against it to get back on track.

Each of us has their own way of doing it, the only common factor here is the knowledge gathered and the type of "exposure" required for a certain activity.

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39 sats \ 0 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

Yeah, it makes me think how babies and animals act somehow.

They judge you for what you do, not for who you are.

If you're bad they avoid you, if you're good they'll approach to you.

Pretty much like that, if you can't see a face, you can only judge by the products of their work and if you screw up, no biggie, just wipe everything off and start anew.

228 sats \ 0 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

just, like, cousins or something :)

These posts are settling down a family it seems. 🥸

Some identities, in some contexts, can certainly be abandoned. But in some, an identity is a thing that accrues capital.

That's why being anonymous is important, there's potentially no limits of how many identities you can own and manage, say you're in a political community and also in another totally unrelated, some people could go against you because of what you said that doesn't even matter in the context you're in at that moment, keeping them separated from each other can help greatly for that.

If we separate our identities from the "real" us, what are the consequences?

It depends on what you do, is "you" really required for what you're going to do? If the answer is "no" or "maybe" you should keep it hidden altogether.

And, as I written in the post, the "real" you might just be a "persona" of yourself, I think we should ask something more like: "Is my face really needed to have a believable and valuable identity?"

50 sats \ 2 replies \ @OT 29 Nov 2023

I like the ideal of work being judged for what it is & not the name behind it. Perhaps for some things this is more selfless or universal. No one knows who invented the wheel. Then there's Satoshi too.

For other things like a book or a piece of music I might take the other side & say that its better to have skin in the game. You put your name on it as you need to be able to answer to criticism.

21 sats \ 0 replies \ @NoStranger OP 29 Nov 2023

Having an alias doesn't mean you make it and leave it, you are just keeping your face out the your work.

Even in books and music, there's many people who don't have a face associated with their content.

Nicknames, pseudonyms and aliases let you conceal yourself while been able to listen and reply to you users, reader or whatever.

30 sats \ 0 replies \ @cyberpunk02 29 Nov 2023

"Skin in the game" identity is not making people more accountable in the fiat world online, it is making us more vulnerable to corruption.

Anons are people to they can treat their work with just the same care, if not more. Public identification often indicates that the actions are less selfless and likely less timeless and less responsible. I think seems counter intuitive because it's mainly just an internet thing.

50 sats \ 1 reply \ @okpj 30 Nov 2023

Anonymity is an unalienable human right.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @NoStranger OP 1 Dec 2023

That's absolutely true.