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Are You Catastrophizing ? Here’s How To Stop Assuming The Worst

Nine experts weigh in on curbing and diffusing your overly negative thoughts.
If you’re a person who spends even a minuscule amount of time consuming news of any kind, you may find yourself in a doom spiral: ongoing war, the upcoming presidential election, climate change, the withering of the media. It isn’t just news that can inspire despair. Life is full of anxiety-inducing interactions, high-stakes scenarios, and unavoidable conflicts that can lead to overthinking, hopelessness, and catastrophic thinking.
Catastrophizing is a common thought pattern where you assume the worst possible scenario. If you fail a test, you might believe you’ll never get a job in the future. When the group chat is silent after you initiate plans, you jump to conclusions and take it to mean everyone hates you. Your boss says she wants to talk and you assume you’re getting fired. Catastrophic thinking escalates the most benign interactions into crises. Very often, though, these predictions do not come to fruition.

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These clowns.
"are you being constantly manipulated with panic news, because there's really no better way for the media to make their money than to constantly scare you? are we successfully putting pictures of doom on your phones, because the three oligopolistic internet silos are fighting for click money on the battlefied of your sanity? First of all, thank you. This is how we make our money. Second, let us sell you this new clickable content with ads and data-vacuuming to blame you for it. It's really you. It's your attention, it's your brain, it's your 'negative thinking' that's doing all this. You really have to change you. We know you can't, because it's really us, not you. Buuut this way our friends in the pill industry can sell you some of those pills, too. Those fix you. Really. We swear! ...Because we're sure shit not going to change our business model. And neither are they"
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