1. Process and come to peace with the gravity of the situation myself, first. I can't be helpful to anyone else or my own family until I am able to act in a calm and measured manner
  2. Create a compliance checklist broadly scoped for most situations
  3. Discipline myself to adhere to the checklist in all circumstances, regardless of my initial emotional reaction
  4. Focus on being a good example for others and be a walking blueprint to follow
  5. Hope that I can comply my way out of the situation
Compliance is important. Thanks for answering.
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