What? Show me custodial solutions being pushed by the Monero community. There isn't any.
Also I am just seeing, didn't you push it here yourself? #577071
Another option, you could use Monero-based ecash for places where you absolutely needed those "instant" transactions. Where finality was more important than self-custody
I'm not claiming it is a scaling solution for Monero/Bitcoin though...that's the major difference. I'm giving him an option if he values "instant" transactions more than self-custody (that doesn't make it scale Monero or Bitcoin. The only thing it's scaling is IOUs.)
I don't have any problem with Bitcoiners who are clear that ecash/liquid/custodial lightning/etc aren't scaling solutions for Bitcoin. Calle the creator of Cashu is a great example of someone that is very clear about this.