Please read this guide I wrote for Umbrel, quite some time ago.

Not just apps to install, but also how to use a LN node.
Additional more guides about running a LN node here:
https://darth-coin.github.io/nodes/nodes.html

Must have apps: RTL and or Thunderhub and Zeus if you want to control your node remotely.
For remote control you can read also this special guide using Tailscale:
https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/tailscale-to-your-node

One of the MOST important aspect is liquidity:
https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/managing-lightning-node-liquidity