That sounds like torture. Being unhappy at home is the worst. I'm sure you've considered everything and are making the best decision you possibly can.
One thing I like to do when I'm unhappy where finances are relevant is to put a dollar amount on what I'd pay to be rid of the unhappiness. My experience pales in comparison to yours, but when we were unhappy at our last home I priced how much I'd pay to be rid of the unhappiness, and while we ended up paying 50% more in rent to move and are even more house poor, it was worth it. I'm glad it was an option for us because it was driving me absolutely bonkers.
Thank you. That is actually really good advice. I’m going to have to think about that and see if that can help my situation.
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