I think you have good intent and smart intuitions for orange pilling. I would just add to your wife that it will be important to take more interest in computers just given the rapid pace of innovation in tech and the real advantages it gives you (idk she maybe already realizes that and has a tech job), and ask her to think for herself about this: which is better, programmable money or government controlled money. There's not a right answer, just that first I thought money controlled by computers was inherently bad and I had to really spend some time thinking on it in comparison to the recklessness of our political leaders. I think those are two stepping stones I needed to accept before I entertained sending and receiving sats. Anyway say hey to her!