I get it. I don't think you came across like that. 

I think it could be interpreted as condescending, like “no one expected you to do anything good, we’re surprised you did.” I wanted to make sure it didn’t come across that way

alter_native

Would you or do you smoke pot in front of your children?

I think it could be interpreted as condescending, like “no one expected you to do anything good, we’re surprised you did.” I wanted to make sure it didn’t come across that way 