LND - more solutions / wallets adopted / can use it, but has too many bugs, clogs, conflicts.
CLN - light, fast, less features (but you can use plugins without changing the core code), less apps use it directly, less wallet apps, code is more fine tuned and therefore is not so buggy
Acinq - stable, dedicated to specific apps / solutions, less wallet apps support it, I think is a bit under appreciated because was shadowed by LND and CLN
Rust - good, I didn't test it on a dedicated node, but I like how it works in Electrum with trampoline channels
You have also Immortan implementation, that is also under rated. Is a light LN node implementation in SBW, but should have more attention on it.
For businesses I recommend CLN
For playing around and learning - LND
If you do specific apps, try Acinq
If you write mobile apps, try Immortan
If you create a desktop app try Rust.
Each one have its own flavor.
On this aspect I find very funny and on point this meme:
I think you still don't understand how LN works.
There's no such thing as "trusted" node for LN, other than YOURS.
Also Zeus can work with LNDHUB wallets/accounts (lntxbot, lnbits), so no need for a home node.
If you do not want / can't run your own home node, then you will have to use a semi-custodial wallet for LN or use Blixt, Breez, SBW, Electrum, that are LN nodes on your own mobile.