My daughter-in-law is a lawyer, too. I understood this situation before she was a lawyer and before I met her. I knew that if I talked to her about it there would be problems. You just cannot change some people, no matter how you would wish different. I guess you could call it a case of self-censorship.

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Fun fact: my sister is a lawyer. And when I start talking with her about this stuff, she get so angry and told me to not talk with her again about this.
We have 6 years not talking each others. Imagine, my own sister hates me because I know this stuff.

Definitely those who knows about this do not want to talk about because they swear an oath to the BAR, the cast and they are fucking scared.