I used to buy Monero on Kraken when I needed some but I don't use Kraken anymore since they stopped lightning withdrawals and delisted Monero.
However, I am in need of some Monero again so I started looking for new sources. I looked up XMR exchanges on kycnot.me and there are not few:
Of the ones listed, I only have experience with Bisq and RoboSats already. Is that also what stackers use, assuming there are some who don't mind to reveal that they use Monero?
However, I am also interested in trying out UnstoppableSwap. It looks like it focuses exclusively on BTC/XMR swaps which is exactly what I am looking for.