It is a fine line though. Sometimes maybe we can help someone see a new perspective. Sometimes it feels like fighting for the sake of fighting, Which quickly feels counter productive at times. I do like challenging people though. 

It's like I am looking for a fight. Why do I do this? I think in some level, I just want connection whatever it looks like. Even when it feels bad. How strange is that? Do you ever chase a confrontation?

I mean, a little bit -- right? Shit-testing is a thing; challenging people to give the best version of this or that statement/argument is an important role.

alter_native

If I don't have something nice to say...


> It's like I am looking for a fight. Why do I do this? I think in some level, I just want connection whatever it looks like. Even when it feels bad. How strange is that? Do you ever chase a confrontation?

I mean, a little bit -- right? Shit-testing is a thing; challenging people to give the best version of this or that statement/argument is an important role. 

Keep fighting

