It takes a bit of messing around with for sure. The odd thing is, when I hear devs talk about nostr, they all say something like how it's crazy simple and how building on it is very open ended. From a user experience, it's different and requires a little getting used to. For me, getting the idea of setting up relays was a learning curve. That and how different clients showed things differently. I think part of it was/is having different relays on different clients. Now, I have them unified and the experience is more uniform.