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Another point is that your parents still think of you as the child, no matter how old you are. They also treat you as their child. Can you put up with that as an independent adult? That is usually the sticking point in these realationships.
Exactly. That manifests in them "being in the way" trying to do things for us that we're also trying to do for ourselves.
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Yes, that is irritating. That is one reason why I spent a lot of time away from “home” while I was staying with her. The one good thing about it was I could set up here IT stuff and make it work for her when she didn’t have a clue.
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