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I've followed this guy for years, and seeing how he's gone from a well-read and passionate Ph.D student with an odd/unique history to a full-fledged intellectual with vast anti-establishment prowess is just wonderful.
I've read and consumed probably 30-50 hours of his work--unfortunately not (yet?) his book-- finding his story fascinating. Anyway, here he is, writing a sort of love letter to New York City of all places.
I moved constantly when I was young. No single location holds all the memories of my youth; no old apartment preserves the spirit of the ten families I lived with throughout my turbulent childhood. What I have instead are fragments: a foster home here, a dusty provincial town there, and the echo of a restless ambition that kept me moving forward.

"New York, despite its outward chaos, offers a sense of continuity and permanence, in a way that no place from my childhood ever did. It’s a city for visionaries, for those who see opportunities and seize them, or stumble into them"

I specifically like this phrasing:
Throughout the process of writing Troubled, I came to realize that memoir is about squeezing the reality you’ve experienced into the vocabulary you know. It’s imperfect, always. Our lives are a beguiling mix of facts and feelings, images and impressions, memories and myths. What I know is this: I’m here now, in the greatest city in the world, writing, working, dreaming, and building a life I once only imagined.
Dude can write. And reading his work is always highly recommended.
/J
I am definitely getting a copy today. I am a memoir addict, and, despite all the bitching I do, I still haven't given up on New York. I look forward to a review.
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I knew the exact moment New York lost its appeal (actually two: the other is trying to make my way through Penn station, against the rush-hour traffic, with a big bag; peeps fucking EVERYWHERE!)
It was the summer of 2019 (#890711), and it was bloody warm and the trash-collecting people were striking or otherwise neglecting their job; the stink was all over the streets. You couldn't avoid it. And the bags of trash were piled alongside the buildings.
Never. Again.
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I like the grime. You should have seen it in the 1970s. It's downright pristine now. I was born here, so it's home. I have a biased view. When I travel to other cities they always seem to be missing something tangible. They seem like movie sets. New York just seems more real. No question that living in NYC is a gigantic pain in the ass.
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Priiiistine, my god. Lemme show you some waterfalls in untouched valleys over here.
But yes, take your point: NYC has something special that most other cities don't
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19 sats \ 1 reply \ @siggy47 23 Feb
I can only take it in small doses nowadays. I live out in the woods and have to travel quite a distance to get my fix. Iceland looks incredible from the videos I have seen, but I'm not sure I can take the cold.
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Doesn't get that cold. Usually stays pretty mild. New England winters are worse