Yes, that's also a possibility, I haven't been here on SN long enough - to experience what it was like before.

Look at what happened to @Alby after they moved from Custodial to self-hosted cloud-based nodes. I can at least say from my personal experience - all our team members literally stopped using alby for testing and switched to WoS. It takes forever to zap from alby, sometimes like 5-15 seconds.

Self-custodial is great for a lot of use-cases, but if interferes with UX, then its a road-blocker and needs to be re-looked.