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How do you know you have married the right person?

900 sats \ 40 comments \ @cryotosensei 19 Apr AskSN

I did my fair share by transporting my kids’ toys to my dad’s house and workplace, but my wife singlehandedly almost emptied the entire apartment within two days. My efforts seem weak to her super heroic antics. I don’t know how she does it. All I care about is that I can just be at her beck and call.

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1152 sats \ 5 replies \ @Undisciplined 19 Apr

You've married the right person if the thought of losing them fills you with existential dread, rather than relief.

Related great scene from The Office https://youtu.be/DpZnZGIuUBQ

31 sats \ 3 replies \ @ek 19 Apr

This scene made me cry, thank you

33 sats \ 2 replies \ @Undisciplined 19 Apr

When it tries to, this show can be really beautiful.

38 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek 19 Apr

At least my ex-girlfriend introduced me to this show, even though she ended up clearly not being The One.

For example, she was also into antinatalism.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Undisciplined 19 Apr

Strange juxtaposition, but perhaps someone in need of a reality check.

22 sats \ 0 replies \ @denlillaapan 19 Apr

never seen this. Beautiful, lol

79 sats \ 2 replies \ @anon 19 Apr

If I were single again, I'd follow the 37% rule.

21 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek 19 Apr

@Car we talked about this recently

114 sats \ 0 replies \ @Car 19 Apr

Haha ya we did. I have only ever been in love two times in my life. One of those times I married the woman I loved dearly but it ended in divorce. As the man in the relationship its entirely my fault. I've owned and come to terms with it. Becoming closer to God has taught me that. These days I’ve learned to date with intention it makes things easier in discerning which are the right women to date.

How do you know, if its the right one, praying, introducing to family and friends is important also there is this feeling of familiarity with the person that clicks right from the beginning. Usually by 6-12 months you should know but from what I hear all marriages/relationships are different.

46 sats \ 0 replies \ @Coinsreporter 19 Apr

TBH, more than half of Indians are married to someone who they come to know after they are married.

I'm one of them.

But as a surprising fact India has the lowest divorce rate globally.

And when I look around me I find more and more happy and satisfied couples and I think the real sign of being right partner lies somewhere in how many happy and satisfying moments you are creating for each other.

42 sats \ 16 replies \ @denlillaapan 19 Apr

you don't. It's a perpetual gamble

64 sats \ 2 replies \ @Butterfinger 19 Apr

I agree, you can marry many people and make it work...there's no right one but many possible right ones.

0 sats \ 1 reply \ @denlillaapan 19 Apr

used to have a teacher who said "there are 50,000 the ones out there for yah."

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Butterfinger 19 Apr

Searching for a right perfect one is making a lot of people stay single. Including myself, but I admit I lost a lot of women that could be a great wife.

14 sats \ 12 replies \ @Aardvark 19 Apr

Are you married? I don't recall...

42 sats \ 11 replies \ @denlillaapan 19 Apr

nope

21 sats \ 10 replies \ @ek 19 Apr

Do you want to be married?

75 sats \ 9 replies \ @denlillaapan 19 Apr

yes

This got way too deep, way too fast

100 sats \ 7 replies \ @Aardvark 19 Apr

Did you two just get engaged?!?! 💍

Omg I'm going to cry!🥰

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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek 19 Apr

This got way too deep, way too fast

You’re welcome

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17 sats \ 0 replies \ @longlifelearner20 19 Apr

i believe it i not about marrying the right person it is more of making the best out of the person you are married to i have always believed that before someone starts looking for superwoman they must be themeselves superman. it is just about not changing a thing about the ones you love or care about it is about loving them with all their flaws and mistakes somehow

13 sats \ 1 reply \ @Aardvark 19 Apr

Because she told me so.

42 sats \ 0 replies \ @denlillaapan 20 Apr

trust, don't verify

24 sats \ 2 replies \ @Thisdaystacker 9h

Your heart will always be at ease when you're married to the right partner.

0 sats \ 1 reply \ @cryotosensei OP 9h

this brought me a chuckle in the middle of a tough work day. thanks mate

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Thisdaystacker 9h

I'm glad it did.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @kurszusz 20 Apr

You never know...only after many, many years of experience. People are unpredictable, which is why marriage is a bit of a "game of chance"...and of course, it requires a lot of compromise on both sides.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @oliverweiss 20 Apr

I would be worried. I mean, how fast can she be in removing all your stuff then? 🤣🤪

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @flat24 20 Apr

It is precisely those little great actions that define whether you have found a good wife or husband.

as described Oda (Alias Goda) in his masterpiece.

"

Unwavering will is the strongest virtue that a person can have.

"

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @j7hB75 20 Apr

You don’t. You’ll figure it through the test of time.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @LibertasBR 19 Apr

Many of us are lucky enough to find the right person and even more so a super heroine lol

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Roll 19 Apr

we do not as we evolutae as person and as a couple...

it is a constant work in action, in communication and so on...

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @028559d218 19 Apr

I'm married to a spotted giraffe... with a tall neck and lots of necklaces. She was giving me the evil eye when when I woke up and looked at her LOL