My wife gets irritated easily, so whenever she unloads her negative emotions on me, I will get similarly triggered. Sulking and pining for my carefree singlehood days and even entertaining thoughts of divorce.
But somehow, we will have a breakthrough in our discussion, which helps us to articulate our point of view. The Ice Wall between us will thaw, and then we will go about the day, feeling lighter.
Marriage is a pain in the ass, but with the right person possessing the right temperament for you, it’s bearable.