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73 sats \ 1 reply \ @denlillaapan 3 May \ parent \ on: Active April has ended HealthAndFitness
hahaha, yeah I've reflected on this before... it seems utterly asymmetrical and, thus, a little pointless: one party's efforts are costlier than the other party's perceived benefit.
I remember living in a shared house many years ago and felt like I was always emptying the dishwasher. I was thinking that, too, while I observed my housemates empty it.
This is why I think score keeping is such a toxic practice. We notice and care about all of the things we do more than the things the other person does. The result is everyone being bitter and resentful.
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