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This is why I think score keeping is such a toxic practice. We notice and care about all of the things we do more than the things the other person does. The result is everyone being bitter and resentful.
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This is why I think score keeping is such a toxic practice. We notice and care about all of the things we do more than the things the other person does. The result is everyone being bitter and resentful.
hahaha, yeah I've reflected on this before... it seems utterly asymmetrical and, thus, a little pointless: one party's efforts are costlier than the other party's perceived benefit.
I remember living in a shared house many years ago and felt like I was always emptying the dishwasher. I was thinking that, too, while I observed my housemates empty it.