It's hard being friends with someone who is "special needs."

I think if you are led to this and convicted that you are put in this earth to be a support for this person, then that is what you have to do.

But if it's too much, you can also know when to let go.

Or let go a bit.

Moderation in all things.

Balance is hard.

Condolences also to you and your wife.

Thank you for your work on stacker news, and I hope you will find a way back to the sunny paths.