Thanks for the feedback and yes, I'll definitely prioritize meeting in person asap.

I think on the kids front, it is something that she did want, but that she now says she is OK with not having due to age. I don't think that necessarily changes the inherent desire but at the same time I imagine it may be OK as I'm not necessarily what is causing her to sacrafice.

In terms of number 4, I am open to relocating. My work is extremely flexible, she has a traditional office job in person. But spending time together prior to moving in together is still challenging as it would be flights back and forth to see each other, so your point is well taken.

Thanks!