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Well, if a woman hints at that, it might mean she doesn't want to be friends only? That's different from the question you originally asked.

So, does friendship only survive because of us women?

He could well refuse, assuming the girl only wants something carnal and not sentimental.

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53 sats \ 1 reply \ @Natalia 11 Sep

Men could definitely refuse too, good men have morals. I know that one of my male friends rejected women who approached him because he got family and he knew his boundary.

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That’s beautiful though, of course, that’s a separate issue: a person's values and the respect they show their partner and family. I’ve heard people claim that absolutely all men are unfaithful, but I don’t agree with that; I believe there are men who have principles and are loyal.

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This thought builds on the idea that men have no standards, any woman will suffice. I’m bi and I don’t secretly want to bang every single person I know.

But I’d like to twist this the other way around: why is it such a concern? Having a good friendship is already halfway of a healthy marriage, assuming the rest of the stuff works out for both of them, why not?

Why is it frowned upon for women to go out with a known, “good” man rather than diving on the cesspool of dating apps?

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