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So, does friendship only survive because of us women?

He could well refuse, assuming the girl only wants something carnal and not sentimental.

53 sats \ 1 reply \ @Natalia 11 Sep

Men could definitely refuse too, good men have morals. I know that one of my male friends rejected women who approached him because he got family and he knew his boundary.

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That’s beautiful though, of course, that’s a separate issue: a person's values and the respect they show their partner and family. I’ve heard people claim that absolutely all men are unfaithful, but I don’t agree with that; I believe there are men who have principles and are loyal.

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This thought builds on the idea that men have no standards, any woman will suffice. I’m bi and I don’t secretly want to bang every single person I know.

But I’d like to twist this the other way around: why is it such a concern? Having a good friendship is already halfway of a healthy marriage, assuming the rest of the stuff works out for both of them, why not?

Why is it frowned upon for women to go out with a known, “good” man rather than diving on the cesspool of dating apps?

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