594 sats \ 5 replies \ @BITC0IN 14 May 2023 \ on: To Reach Women, Bitcoiners Should Change Their Approach bitcoin
bit of a tangent here, but I imagine if you want the ladies to pay attention, you need to make it relevant to their lived situations.
one example of this could be an honest discourse on custody of Bitcoin funds during marriage.
In fiat land, you got the law, courts and lawyers to sort all that out if things go sideways and you're staring at divorce proceedings involving tradfi bank accounts and assets that are readably seize-able.
But in Bitcoin land, possession is 10/10ths the law, making asset recovery and fair disposal of said assets potentially impossible, given a malicious partner.
Thus, the answer may be a 2 of 2 multisig arrangement for the bride and groom, where each holds 1 key of the 2 for their collective Bitcoin savings.
In the event of a large purchase with said funds, they both have to agree on it, like any good marriage.
In the event of a parting of ways, they both are incentivized to do so on good terms to recover funds from the multisig wallet in an equitable fashion.
tl/dr ladies should start demanding 2 of 2 multisig bitcoin wallet arrangements along with their diamond rings.
I wouldn't put corn in a 2 of 2 multisig where I only have one of the keys, unless it's something with a timelock like a lightning channel.
It would be silly to lose my entire stash just because the other owner died or went crazy.
And I wouldn't entrust my corn to a lawyer, that's not self-custody as it introduces counterparty risk. It can work in the fiat world where a rogue lawyer colluding with a rogue wife could have their funds seized and clawed back from, but lawyers and custodianship don't mix with a strictly rules-based system like Bitcoin.
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good critique, though I imagine their are prenup/multisig options that can somewhat mitigate this concern about a colluding lawyer.
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It's simple!) she keeps her key but you know the address and you keep yours and she knows the address) and the balances are the same)
it works)))
In any situation, she decides for herself what to do!) but if you need to solve a family issue, then you just discount to one address to buy Auto!) for example.
everything is simple as 3+3
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It's simple!) she keeps her key but you know the address and you keep yours and she knows the address) and the balances are the same)
it works)))
In any situation, she decides for herself what to do!) but if you need to solve a family issue, then you just discount to one address to buy Auto!) for example.
everything is simple as 3+3
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caveat, better to have a 2/3 multisig in case either party loses a key.
give the third key to a lawyer with the prenup.
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