Start reading these guides:

• https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/5-stages-became-bitcoiner
• https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/what-bitcoin-ln-node-software-can
• https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/managing-lightning-node-liquidity
• https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/private-lightning-nodes

And many more resources you will find there