It feels so good. After so many cul de sac conversations, she finally gave in and bought herself some bitcoin.
My biggest finding:
  • many people have a problem understanding the idea of the bitcoin blockchain - some virutal world, which does who knows what, etc.. I knew this was a problem, but did not know how to solve it, until now. I showed her a visual view into a mempool and explained to her about the pending and confirmed transactions, blocks, miners etc. I think, since she saw a visual representation of the blockchain, that lit up a light bulb. She could suddenly associate something real with something that was just talked about and virtual. I think this was the final thing she needed to wrap her mind around it. Seeing the transactions, blocks, chain live was priceless.
Of course, she needs more education, but the biggest step is done. The rest is just a walk in the park.
Hope this helps someone to orange pill another lost soul.
visual view into a mempool
Are you talking about https://mempool.space/ here or something else?
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yes, that is a great example of one mempool
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Send her to Nostr and take her to a conference or meetup
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hehe, that is a bit too much tech for her:). she is more of an art person. different brain
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My wife is the same, but the social element goes a long way with the ladies
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Congrats :) I have a childhood friend that we started hanging out again the recent years, I occasionally bring the conversation to bitcoin and try to educate him about the importance of such a tool.
First few times I was very excited to explain what it is and how it works, but it didn't seem to get his attention, in the sense to start asking questions.
Latter I told him that I was studing how the financial system (money) works and there I understood that he had no idea about the reality... I mean he had a completely false perspective which he tried to support but soon realised there was flaws in his opinion, but I never pushed him to much :)
Fast forward.. a few month ago he was visiting me to have a cup of coffee and hang out, and in my big screen I had the mempool space website open because I was checking the fees before a transaction. He asked me a few questions about the stats that the website visualise and I was more than happy to explain. That day I knew all our previous conversations had set the fundamentals and he now knows the basics. Next step is to make him a wallet and send him some btc, which I postpone because he has a very old phone that I am afraid to trust it in the sense of security. Also I try to educate him how to be more privacy oriented.
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keep on chugging along. well done
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I wish it was this simple to orange pill my daughter but she's on her own path and will find her way eventually.
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It was not easy. This was just the final straw. Many years of eye rolling :)
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Nice work! We got to set some missionaries too to spread the word of bitcoin. We got to put speakers on top of our cars and drive around the neighborhoods. Maybe even get ATM setup in the car for people that lines up to buy bitcoin.
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Congrats Mate! It definitely too a lot of effort
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I really never thought about visualizing the mempool as an orange pulling tactic but it makes total sense.
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yeah, me neither until now
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You go girl :)
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Happy walking together in the parc of blockchain and bitcoin! 👣
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Congrats! Just don't tell her you own any BTC, loose lips sink ships.
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Deception kills relationships.
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And good opsec is the best way to avoid being deceived.
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i do not have any. i lost it along with my boat last summer:)
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Lucky man!
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Until she got that bitcoin in a hardware wallet, the battle is only half won, but you are on the right track 😁👍🏻
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bought herself some bitcoin.
You mean you hadn't already bought some for her??? Planning a divorce in the future or something?
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She is on her own path. If I would buy her some, I think, she wouldn't be able to recover it within a month :). She is not the most organized person. But this way, she went through the journey herself, so she is better equipped to not forget about it.
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