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42 sats \ 4 replies \ @TheWildHustle 28 Sep 2023 \ parent \ on: What's holding you back right now? meta
My wife solved this problem by running away........Its almost like I kidnapped her. She gets along better with her folks now that they see her happy and doing well.
I did move to the other part of the world, but the problem remains unsolved, and it almost feels like it's haunting me occasionally.
And what happened in between?
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I think whats interesting in my wife's case, is that the relationship she has with her family significantly improved. In between was a daily/weekly screaming match.....nowadays they say "I love you" before hanging up the phone. Maybe time, communication, and love are the key. All families are different tho
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wow, and fun fact - the culture which I was born into, people barely say "I love you" or hug their kids.! now I am in a culture where the parents and kids are like friends, always hugging and kissing, lots of sharing and spending time together.
It's crazy to see how culture could have such a BIG influence on parenting.
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Ha! Same scenario over here.
My wifes mom saw me interacting with my mom, I think it confused the hell out of her, because we were genuinely laughing telling jokes and exchanging "I love you"s
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