0 sats \ 2 replies \ @Natalia 8 Oct 2023 \ parent \ on: What's holding you back right now? meta
This is the way, but no, I am not worrying about my own parenting, I would just let the kid do whatever he/she wants in life, they are free to choose because it's their own life.
I'm talking about what if your parents put some unwanted obligations on you, or try different ways to affect/ control you, e.g. making you feel guilty about exploring your own life.
Oh yes they did that to me. But I consider it more a reflection of their anger about the system and wrongfully they push it over me.
But I retreat myself into books. I read a lot when I was young.
Also my grandpa helped me a lot with advice and teaching me a lot of stuff about life. He fought in bought WW, a real survivor.
I was kind of independent kid at the age of 15. I was even running an "illegal" business in school and earning quite good money.
I didn't want to depend too much of my parents. I was a rebel, always.
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Oh yes they did that to me. But I consider it more a reflection of their anger about the system and wrongfully they push it over me.
I know that's also part of their familiar way of parenting from their own parents, so I don't know how to solve this problem, and it's causing mental conflicts.
I was kind of independent kid at the age of 15. I was even running an "illegal" business in school and earning quite good money. I didn't want to depend too much of my parents. I was a rebel, always.
I was a rebel too! More like just thinking for myself instead of following the BS; I started making my own money from young too, I even worked as a freelance translator to practice my English during school time, I like learning in the wild 🤣 and almost couldn't graduate from uni because I didn't want to waste time writing that stupid paper.!
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