This is a story about (probably) loosing 5M sats while running a reckless lightning networks node.
I had some sats to spend in an electrum wallet and wanted to open a new channel with the OKX node. With lncli I opened a new channel and selected the -psbt (partial signed bitcoin transaction) option which allows me to use funds from an external wallet to fund the new channel. Everything went fine so far as I could create, sign and broadcast the transaction. Unfortunately I decided to open with too low fees and the channel opening was stuck in the mempool. Instead of just wait and drink tee, I decided to bump the fee which was a very bad idea. If you bump the fee with the external wallet, you create a new transaction with a new txid. My node and also the OKX node have no idea about the new transaction and I essentialy sent 5M sats to a 2of2 multi-sig address which only I have the key for (not exactly).
Well, fortunately there exists chantools rescuefunding but this is only helping if your peer is cooperative. Now that my peer is not a pleb which I can contact on SN, I have to go through the OKX support. After telling them that there is no point in sending them screenshots of my app or whatever and insiting they should just send my psbt which releases my funds to the tech team they agreed and now I hope and wait (... for some weeks now).
If someone knows someone at OKX: please let me know, that could help.
If you want to dig deeper, everything is documented on github
And if I don't get the sats back its a gift to all you awesome bitcoiners out there.