It might sound like a cliche, but we’re still early and these are minor kinks
Payment hopping will slowly become more efficient in a short time period. There are just a bit less than 4K BTC these days, so sometimes routes are not very efficient
Have you considered running a node ?
yes I a running a full node (umbrel) But I am afraid to use it as my LN node as umbrel usually crash after every few days/months