> what if I shared something might regret in the future

**All it takes is one wrong action, and everyone treats you like a monster, forcing you to take on that role.**

That's why i use new identities after a while.

Zepasta

or happy to pay to delete it, but there is no such option... 

censorship resistant is fun and cool but taking away my freedom to delete is not cool, good thing is SN better integrated with zaps and with the option to delete, win win! I think people would be more open to share giving the option to delete.

So true. Or at least edit. Then you could scrub those notes, even if all the original relays are not online for those that are.

Clients could decide whether to respect edits or not, but it is a must have on the protocol IMHO, if we want to have civil conversations and not everything fossilised forever.

That or having ephemeral messages an accessible note type, that disappear after x months.