define "too normal"
hmm kinda hard, but I should certainly define it, let's see it's like when you take in some piece of how they construct either their personality or their worldview, and you have a deep well of opinion/experience to unleash about it but you know they can't take it in
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but then I think you can learn something from different people, even from really normal ones, like I have no problem hanging out even with village people, they got great life skills:)
I do get what you mean.
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So you are defining cognitive dissonance... right.
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cognitive dissonance would apply as a term in what I'm describing, but I'm referring to a moment in conversation and social introduction
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you'd probably know what I mean if you ever talk to people in person
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