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What if I told you that utopia isn't some distant, unattainable dream, but rather a state of being that we can cultivate right here, right now?

Take a moment before you read on and soak that in... how does it make you feel? What were your first thoughts? Do you think I am crazy?

When we think of utopia, we think of a paradise in some far-off land that we are striving to get to, even searching for. We believe it to be the impossible, the imaginary and so, even though we dream of it, we tell ourselves that it is unobtainable and out of reach.
  • What would happen if we realised that we have the power to create it within ourselves and in our surroundings?
  • What if the key to unlocking utopia lies in the very thoughts, actions, and words that shape our daily lives?
Consider this: every moment, we are actively participating in the creation of our reality.
Our thoughts serve as the architects, our actions as the builders, and our words as the blueprints.
We are constantly shaping the world around us, whether we realise it or not. And just as we have the power to construct, we also have the power to deconstruct and rebuild anew.

But what does it mean to live in utopia?

Now, this is where it gets tricky for people and it is the reason that it is fobbed off as a fantasy.
Everyone has a different idea of what utopia is, every person's thoughts, actions and words are different so:
  • How can we be live in utopia if we all have a different view?
  • How can we live in utopia if there is 'evil' in the world, if there are murderers, rapists, gun crime etc?
  • How can we live in utopia if we don't have fairness and equality, a working trade system?

How can I know that we already live in utopia even though we live amongst all this?

Because, it isn't about controlling what people do and how they act. It's not about a perfect world devoid of challenges or hardships. Rather, it's about cultivating a mindset of abundance, compassion, and harmony amidst the chaos of life. It's about recognising that our external circumstances do not define our inner peace, and that true fulfilment comes from within.
However there is something that will help you to create the world around you...
One of the fundamental principles of this Utopian mindset is the law of reciprocity: what we put out into the world, we inevitably receive back. If we sow seeds of kindness, empathy, and generosity, we will reap a harvest of connection, joy, and fulfilment. Conversely, if we propagate negativity, fear, and hatred, we will find ourselves trapped in a cycle of suffering and discord.
The concept of utopia is echoed in various spiritual and philosophical traditions, from the Golden Rule ("Do unto others as you would have them do unto you") to the law of karma ("As you sow, so shall you reap"). It reminds us that we are all interconnected, and that our individual actions have ripple effects that reverberate throughout the collective consciousness.

You can create what you want, by first giving it.

So how do we begin to cultivate this Utopian mindset in our own lives?
It starts with a shift in perspective—a willingness to see the world through the lens of possibility rather than limitation. Instead of dwelling on what's wrong or lacking, we can focus our attention on what's right and abundant. We can choose to see challenges as opportunities for growth, setbacks as lessons in resilience, and differences as sources of enrichment.
Here's an example of the same life from two different perspectives:
Non-Utopian: Currently, with just £5 in my bank account, I feel utterly skint. The relentless increase in costs over recent years has left me drained. Every expenditure feels like a struggle. Our house, too small for my family, weighs heavy on my conscience. The kids deserve better, more space to thrive. And the state of our garden mirrors my financial problems—desperately in need of attention, but a gardener is a luxury I can't afford. Balancing work and responsibilities, I find myself stretched thin, unable to keep up with it all. The audacity of the government to imply I'm not working hard enough hurts. What more could they possibly want? Maybe they're onto something, but the prospect of a 'proper' job seems daunting. I've always felt unemployable—each job I've had ends in frustration, either with me walking out or being fired due to my inability to filter myself. It's all a consequence of my childhood. It was so hard. Why did those things happen to me? I can't help but wonder, if things had been different, how would my life have unfolded? I long for a perfect world—a place of peace, laughter, and hard work that is rewarded fairly.
Utopian: Currently, my bank account shows £5, but rest assured, all my bills are settled, the fridge is stocked, and utilities topped up, so I can relax until the next payday. Admittedly, expenses are climbing, but I'm up for the challenge! Money is purely energy that flows in and out. My home is perfect – and easy to tidy up when the mood strikes. The kids are happy, and with the park a stone's throw away, they've got plenty of space to stretch their legs. Sure, the garden could use a little TLC, but watching bees, butterflies, and the occasional neighbourhood cat outside always makes me smile. Who says dandelions are a nuisance? They're nature's little wonders! Life for me isn't just about work and chores; it's about savouring the present, listening to the birds chirp. Recently, the government chimed in, suggesting I step up my game. Naturally, I asked why. Their answer? It's the rules. But are they really? Or is it just about boosting the bank balance to keep them happy? It's all a bit of a game, isn't it? So, I posed another question: Do I need to work harder or earn more? Their response: Earn more. Well then, how much more to make you smile? Challenge accepted! I'm living life on my terms, keeping the powers that be satisfied without diving into the rat race. Reflecting on my upbringing, it wasn't a walk in the park. I used to wonder, "Why me?" Now, I see those struggles shaped me into someone resilient, compassionate, and tough. Without experiencing pure sorrow and helplessness, I wouldn't know joy, strength, or love as deeply as I do now. Not everyone shares my outlook, and that's fine; they don't have to. I call the shots on who's in my circle, what I create, and how I navigate this journey called life.
We can align our thoughts, actions, and words with our highest ideals and values. We can strive to embody virtues such as love, compassion, consideration and gratitude in our interactions with ourselves and others. We can be mindful and self-aware, cultivating a deeper understanding of our own motivations and intentions. And we can engage in acts of service and contribution, recognising that the true measure of our worth lies not in what we accumulate, but in what we give.
In doing so, we not only transform our own lives but also contribute to the collective evolution of humanity. We become beacons of light in a world too often shrouded in what appears to be darkness, inspiring others to awaken to their own inherent power and potential. And together, we co-create a reality that reflects the beauty, harmony, and abundance of the utopia within.
In conclusion, perhaps the greatest irony is that utopia isn't some distant destination to be reached but rather a journey to be embraced—one that begins and ends with the realisation that we already possess everything we need to create it.
So let us dare to dream, to imagine, and to believe in the infinite possibilities that lie within our grasp. For in doing so, we may just discover that the utopia we've been searching for has been here all along, waiting patiently for us to awaken to its presence within ourselves.

There will be plenty I have missed as it is such a big subject so feel free to question me and we can have a healthy conversation or debate! There is nothing wrong with disagreement as long as we stay kind to one another :)

Needlessly Pedantic Man (one of my alter egos) wants to poke holes in this. However, in the spirit of your post, I'll lean into my more charitable feelings and focus on how I agree with the overarching point you're making.
When people get caught up in "I wish I had _____", "I'm jealous of ________", "If only _____ had happened", etc., I usually respond (if only to myself) "I'm incredibly fortunate. I'd rather have my family than someone else's, regardless of what else is involved in that trade."
If you want to argue that I should think of my life as Utopia, I don't have any real grounds to argue back. Most people in human history would probably agree with you, too.
Mindset is a very powerful thing. I hope people internalize your message.
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Thank you for your comment! I am kind of intrigued as to what Needlessly Pedantic Man has to say?
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His ears started perking up with "Consider this: every moment, we are actively participating in the creation of our reality."
While certainly true, it only implies that we can steer our reality in a more positive direction, if we take the right actions. However, reality is complex, so it's not going to be obvious what those actions are. It's also not always going to be the case that you can steer your reality to a place that isn't horrible.
Now, your title is a question and the "we" in it is a bit ambiguous. If you're just talking about you and I, then I can say that the points you made resonate with my current situation. So, maybe we (the two of us plus whoever else feels similarly) do already live in Utopia.
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I understand where (now shortened to) NPM is coming from..
We absolutely can steer our realities in any direction that we want, by following our intuition and choosing wisely. I don't believe in right or wrong decisions as whatever we are choosing will help us grow. You could steer yourself into horrible situations, I have done many times. However, I have always learnt from them and they have fared me well in the end.
I would agree with the point about "we". I would say that everyone has a choice of what to believe and I am certainly not going to push anyone or say that I am "right". From my point of view though... I love to see the world from a loving, kind, beautiful perspective :)
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1111 sats \ 1 reply \ @SilkyNinja 10 May
I guess I’m more of a Buddhist: the idea of “cultivating” a “mindset” has never made much sense considering the incredible transience of the mind. It is much more akin to a sandcastle than something to be fortified. In fact, to fortify a mindset seems to be just putting up a front to your idea of who you should be. And if it were really who you are, would you need to cultivate and fortify it so much - or could you let it grow like a wild and dense forest?
Your argument appears to center around this idea of the individual willing their thoughts to create a new reality, beginning with the perception of their current reality. This is something a bit parroted in derivative modern mystic perspectives and belies the point of physical-spiritual practices such as prayer and meditation that cultivate a relationship with the body. I wonder if you’ve read Tolle’s The Power of Now.
A scientific perspective on the use of the mind in a top-down fashion is this: The best that thought processes (a tertiary brain function) can do to influence our behavior is to change our perspective of “ourselves” and “the past” via frameworks and perspectives, and so influence habitual behaviors. This means seeking knowledge to have a better understanding of what is going on. We may “know ourselves” better through certain thought-based practices, but to insist on putting on someone’s sunglasses to see the world is advice I cannot tolerate.
Your advice sounds like self-imposed mind control along a certain idea of what is “good” or “virtuous” behavior or a way of being. I don’t think that we can “align” to our “highest selves” if we are following the advice of someone’s idea of what is good. There are plenty of practical, earthly arguments why we are already compassionate and why generosity and mercy make practical social sense. To ascribe some sort of ineffable spiritual value to cultivating these things is to attempt to define an unseen force or power (and what it wants from us), and to try to define that unseen power (and what it wants from us) is to assume unseen dominance over others. When you argue that it is our good and our goal to embody certain traits, do you claim to know what God wants for us?
I wonder that if by warping the mind to such a specific track of goodliness, we leave room for evil to grow within ourselves via the resentment of the rejected self.
For me, again, the biggest issue is this: How do I know what my highest virtues are when I’m told that the way to “align to my highest self” is to embody a very specific list of personality traits and actions prescribed by someone else? Who are you to tell me that my worth lies not in whatever I say it is and instead what I give to others?
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What a beautiful response! You woke my mind up! I will absolutely respond to this when I am home from my weekend away :)
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133 sats \ 1 reply \ @freetx 10 May
Currently, my bank account shows £5, but rest assured, all my bills are settled, the fridge is stocked, and utilities topped up, so I can relax .....
Years ago I had a similar semi-related epiphany. I used to be an IT consultant and one of my close customers was estate planning lawyer. His clients were VHNW (very high net worth) individuals. As a result of that, I got to meet a few billionaires in my time there.
It was at one of those times, that I had an epiphany. The man in front of me had an old Blackberry phone (same model as mine), we were both drinking a can of soda of some type, I noticed his shoes were slightly older and scuffed.
Of course none of this was some intellectual shock to me...I mean I didn't have some fantasy that rich people had solid gold phones and drank nectar from the gods...it was instead an emotional realization that "we only live in the moment". An at that moment, as two human beings, we were having identical experiences. That is...both sitting there with our blackberry phones, drinking a soda, with slightly uncomfortable shoes on.
Sure, his bank account had several more zeros at that end then mine, but in the present moment that was actually immaterial. Money is a semi-illusion as we live in a tiny pinpoint of time known as the "present".
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i was talking to my middle son this morning about something semi-related to this.He was complaining because he is struggling at school as per! Not with his education but with communicating in an acceptable manner. We are a very neurodivergent family and therefore our brains work in weird and wonderful ways. He was saying that he 'can't' communicate with others. Ha, well, I corrected him as he is more than capable of communicating and I went on to explain what he can do to help and how actually having a brain like his, is actually a super-power! Oops... I digressed! Part of my explanation was explaining that people - no matter if they have no money and are homeless on the street, or billionaires who appear to have everything are any different from each other. We are all connected and no matter the cup that we drink from, we are able to talk to each other on the same level. Money and things are immaterial. What is actually important is how you connect with someone in the moment. We are all the same and yet all so very different! Life is an illusion, and we play it whether we are aware of that or not!
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Yes I believe we create reality every moment with our thoughts, words and actions. And we attract what we are. Or in other words, the frequency that you put out into the world you will attract back. Nikola Tesla apparently said “if you want to understand the universe think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration”.
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I would also add...
If you want to understand the universe you need to look from within.
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Our quality of life on Earth could much better, by orders of magnitude even, if the secrecy behind UFOs, ETs, and exotic tech was ended.
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Do you keep secrets? If so, then my suggestion would be to start from within! How can you judge others for keeping secrets, if you do yourself? Even the smallest ones?
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33 sats \ 1 reply \ @nullama 10 May
That has always been the reality though.
But the concept of utopia, I believe, is wider than just your own mind.
It encompasses all society.
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The concept of utopia is to live in some kind of paradise. Each individual will have their own version of that - therefore utopia lies from within. (in my opinion)
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33 sats \ 4 replies \ @Naja 10 May
Great read! I agree! In fact, I think the ones fobbing it off as a fantasy are just lazy (or unaware, if I need to play nice), stuck in between wishing and dreaming but not actively doing anything about it.
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I wouldn't say lazy. I know plenty of people who are actively working very hard to escape the life that they have to get to a 'better' place. Whilst doing that though, they create stories around how 'bad' things are, and are unaware of the magik that surrounds them. Gratefulness has a huge part to play in how our lives will unfold. Understanding and recognising that there is pain and sorrow in the world and feeling that too, so that we can truly understand what joy and happiness is. So many are trying to 'rid' the world of something - they are certainly not lazy. What happens though, is they attract what they are trying to rid as they are constantly talking and thinking about it. So many focus on what they don't want rather than what they do.
Unawareness is in my opinion the kinder AND more aligned word. Laziness is judgemental . And, as we are all unique, what is lazy to one person will be to the other everything that they can give in that moment.
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10 sats \ 2 replies \ @Naja 10 May
Very well defended, I agree. "Lazy" definitely not the right word or feeling (judgemental of me I admit), I take it back.
What would you say it's the root cause of the unawareness?
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Stories.
We have been conditioned (programmed in fact) to believe that life has limitations. We have been told that we are small, that we are separate beings, disconnected from each other. We have been taught that we need to follow rules and rulers - the biggest story here being the story of god. Even if you don't believe, you will still, maybe without even realising be following at least some of the teachings of the bible.
In my opinion this book was and is genius! Look at the effect that the "legend" of god has had.
And with story comes fear (which is a story within itself).
If people are fearful and do not understand that fear can be used to move things at speed, they will stop. They are taught to believe that fear is a reason to stop, a danger sign and not taught how to follow intuition. Fear itself is now feared!
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30 sats \ 0 replies \ @Naja 10 May
That's funny. For many years I defended that fear is the original feeling! All other feelings can be dissected back to fear..
It was mostly a pet project I would entertain in my mind with when I was bored, the way some people will sing a song in their heads while doing dishedhe dishes or laundry! (Yes, I'm weird! No, it's not the weirdest I can be!)
But like you mention, the more you think about it and the more your perspective seems blinded by it.. It was when I noticed how fearful I actually was (even though I acted - and still do - tough!), that I've tried seeing the world with new eyes.. it helped to surround myself with people that thought differently and challenged me. But new surroundings, better stories and challenges mean nothing, if we're not willing to admit we were wrong, and pivot to a new perspective..
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