I used to think the way you do, but tables turn after you hit your 30s. After that, males, especially those with stable incomes and decent personalities, have a much easier time in dating than females do.
That being said, my personal advice: get better, not bitter. Work on your own self betterment rather than dwelling on the injustices of life.
this territory is moderated
get better not bitter
Can we say this to the left wing community w/o threat of violence and cancellation?
Affirmative action or DEI: get better not bitter
reply
actually DEI is : don't get better, get more and more bitter
reply
excellent advice: get better not bitter.
I am an expert of getting bitter
The best revenge is living well
reply
Can’t recommend and agree with this enough, certainly gets better in your 30s and I look back never once regretting working on oneself : however I have regretting doing dumb shit, big parties etc under peer pressure or the guise of seeking value from others I do not value.
Build a life with values you want to live in , she will find you at the right time.
reply
Yes, that's right, be better, don't be bitter and don't give up on the situation, everyone who tries will definitely get results in the future, maybe in the next 2 or 3 years maybe the income will be big, I personally will not give up to prove that I can be like they. We must continue to be enthusiastic, this man never gives up trying.
reply
Oeh, yay... Only ten more years before the tables turn, awesome.
reply
step one: less sarcasm
reply
153 sats \ 51 replies \ @anon 12 Aug
step two: job
reply
Someone's keeping a tab on me, huh?
reply
81 sats \ 49 replies \ @anon 12 Aug
step three: get your own place
reply
🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣 Yeah buddy, you come over to the Netherlands and find a place to build something up, it's not gonna happen without taking up debt for 40+ years.
reply
Huh. I was reading this and thought to myself, 'Man, being in the USA really must suck!' I never expected you to be from the Netherlands.
As a fellow Dutchie, I'm really surprised by this. I'm older now (>35 years), but I had a very different experience between the ages of 14 and 23 (when I met my wife). It was always easy to get a date, and we were treated as equals, either treating each other or splitting bills (going Dutch). Is there a difference between big cities and small towns? I'm from a small town myself.
reply
There will be a difference, albeit one that's getting smaller.
You're >35, I've just turned 25, which means that there's a solid 10-year-gap between us; I think social media and general brain rot (leftism and equality BS) wasn't as bad as it is today "back then", but oh well: I'll see when I ask a few girls if they'd like to get to know me. πŸ™‚
Get out of the Netherlands
reply
As if there's anywhere in the western world where women haven't been weaponized in this way...
Stay where you're at kid, and focus on money and health.
If you starting improving now, you will get positive results sooner than you imagined.
The importance is trying to improve vs actual improvement.
Women respect effort.
reply
Women respect effort.
Yeah, ah-huh, just as my sister does... Not πŸ˜†
Sorry, I had to, but I get what you're after.
reply
Good thing you aren't shooting for your sister then!
reply
reply
Stack harder Lift weights Climb mountains Break the laws of physics
Easy
You can just decide to build yourself into a valuable person on a shorter timeline if that is what you actually want
reply
41 sats \ 1 reply \ @nichro 12 Aug
The years will come faster than you think heh
reply
And then you'll want them to slow down...
reply