Ok, I am relatively technical (computer savvy, work in tech) and have a pretty solid understanding of Bitcoin and the LN. I am running my own node, Start9 OS, and running Core Lightning. I've funded my wallet and opened a channel with Olympus Zeus (350k sats for starters) via RTL. I have this one and only channel open, with no receive liquidity. Ok...so to my issues - I am trying to SEND sats to one of my custodial LN wallets, just to test things out. No matter how many times I try and how many sats I try to send (500-50k) it always fails. Is it safe to assume Olympus' node could find a path to someone like Strike or Kraken?
What am I doing wrong here? I have not had the time to dig into the specifics of node management, private vs clearnet, etc. (I live in FL, prepping for another big storm) and just want to be able to send some sats out of my self-custodial wallet... that's it. However, I do not want to have to open several 500k+ sat channels, since I do not need that really. If the answer is the LN is not yet optimized for a user like me, then so be it. But it can't be this difficult... if it's this hard for me I can only imagine how hard it would be for a non-technical normie.
I am open to ideas, suggestions and resources that are relevant and useful. Thank you!
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