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Why is there no thread called "Family/Relations/Friends"? I want to post things about my girlfriend. About previous relationships. I want to share lessons, values, thoughts about my personal life. But where to put it? You would all benefit from my mistakes!

I'm happily married. I don't know about everyone else.

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No lessons?

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@Aardvark Do you have any advice for us?

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Check your ego. Remember that you aren't always right. Be a team.

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But what if I am right?

Go full Sawyer fr Lost on their ass?

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If you're right, but doing it in a way that makes your partner feel stupid, or bad, or inferior, then you're still wrong. Just in a different way.

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Fuck no.

Feelings don't rule the world. Grow up

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Feel free to disregard your partners feelings on principle then. Let me know how that works out for you.

I can agree with that!

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Congratulations! I hope you have a wonderful partner and are working on being an even better one!

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I'm single and I can say I have a decent life. I'm happy and that's what matters to me the most!

Also, the reason I don't have anyone or I'm single is that I have Aspergers and it's hard for me to understand a person and connect emotionally with them.

Also, how about you? How's your relationship going? Any advice for me?

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I'm glad you can say you're living a decent life! That's the best I can say! The biggest mistake is to try to find one that is "complete" or to chase something. The only tip I can give is to be yourself, be honest and stick to your values. Don't change for anyone. If no one can be with you, then so be it. Then you are too good for this world and they don't deserve you.

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Thank you! I really appreciate it.

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Alternative or meta.

And no I don't have a girlfriend. I wanted one but my wife didn't approve. Haha

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What a cruel wife you have!

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So this is the territory for everything else?

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It’s where people share personal stories

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Can’t you have both?

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I think you can, but I think you are missing something.

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How are things going with your gf?

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Things are changing fast, but things are great and getting better.

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~alter_native is a great place to share that type of content. We love learning from stories that are more personal

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Thank you for your recommendation

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Oh man, @realBitcoinDog just has to chip in here.

Maybe that's the territory you make? ~marriedlife

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Would love to! Is there a poll option on SN? Or do I know if there is a demand? Because having a territory is quite expensive for my taste.

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Yes when you make a post click “options” and besides link and discussion one is a poll.

You still get to write a lengthy post but ask a poll at the end.

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Actually, this is not a bad idea for a dedicated territory...

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You can post here separately

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I have wife and life both.

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Good fucking job!

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Give us all the deets, sir.

esp advice and tricks

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very interesting collection of things, thanks for compiling it!

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You're welcome! I'm glad you liked it :)

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