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I'm happily married. I don't know about everyone else.

No lessons?

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@Aardvark Do you have any advice for us?

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Check your ego. Remember that you aren't always right. Be a team.

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But what if I am right?

Go full Sawyer fr Lost on their ass?

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If you're right, but doing it in a way that makes your partner feel stupid, or bad, or inferior, then you're still wrong. Just in a different way.

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Fuck no.

Feelings don't rule the world. Grow up

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Feel free to disregard your partners feelings on principle then. Let me know how that works out for you.

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Oh absolutely crap, but it doesn't change the fact or principle that feeling isn't enough for assessing reality or doing stuff.

Assessing events and decisions through one's horribly volatile emotional status is a disaster. Some of that is just femininity etc, and it's my job to disregard... Does seem belittling but maybe Sawyer is on to something, then.

Regardless, I don't know how to square those things.

I can agree with that!

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Congratulations! I hope you have a wonderful partner and are working on being an even better one!

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