edit: the wife has always been cold and yet this is still a shocking new low for her...

good point

I have read that you are lucky to get 12 months after diagnosis

here is chat gpt:

The median survival rate for someone diagnosed with pancreatic cancer can vary based on factors such as the stage at diagnosis, the person’s overall health, and the type of treatment received. However, on average:

• For metastatic (advanced) pancreatic cancer, where the cancer has spread to other parts of the body, the median survival time is often around 6 months.
• For localized pancreatic cancer, where the cancer is confined to the pancreas and potentially treatable with surgery or other treatments, the median survival is generally around 12-18 months, although this can vary significantly depending on the specifics of the case.
• If the cancer is diagnosed early enough and the patient is able to undergo surgery, the 5-year survival rate can improve, but early detection is challenging because pancreatic cancer often shows no symptoms until it’s in later stages.

It’s important to remember that these are just median statistics, and survival times can differ widely from person to person. Some individuals may survive longer with treatment, while others may face a shorter time.