I am sorry for your losses. I think humans are the only creatures that live knowing they will die. But how many of us realize this fact? And why are we like this? Your article brought these questions to my mind.

Were you a Spinal Tap fan? There's a line (can't find a clip) where they're standing at Elvis's grave.

I've been in a similar mode to you for a while, due to similar reasons. The main takeaway through it all was to try to force myself to acknowledge that the same fate is coming for me, just not yet. And to ask whether I'm living in a way that, when it arrives, I'll be ready, or ready as I can realistically be. I have typically not enjoyed the answer.

It's funny, bitcoiners talk about "fiat mindset" all the time, but my strong suspicion is that we're just as sick with it as anyone, and even fat btc bags obscure the truth that we're finite, that everything precious will be taken, and that it requires both strength and foresight to live in acknowledgement of that truth, to build and "invest" in life and in ourselves in a way that gives a good accounting eventually.

The method for doing so is as old as time. There are probably other methods as well. None of them have got easier.

Thanks for sharing, Siggy. I'm sorry for your losses. My condolences. Losing someone close is never easy.

I'm not "old" yet, but as I get closer to my own midpoint in life, thoughts of mortality naturally become more present. I think it was a good decision to post here. Just putting your thoughts into words can be a powerful, cathartic release. You're in good company, and I’m sure you’ll feel that in the responses you receive to your post.

We all face death eventually, and learning to be at peace with that reality is one of the few things truly within our control. Time doesn’t always heal every wound, but it does soften the pain. Keep posting if it helps. Writing can clear the mind, and reading others' thoughts can offer comfort or even just a bit of healthy distraction.

Wishing you peace today and in the days ahead. 🧡

Sorry to hear about your mother in law. 95 is an impressive run.

I have been experiencing something similar lately. My aunt died recently, my wife also lost one of her aunts and a close friend of my parents passed away last week.

Gonna be in your state later today. Just waiting on the wife and kids so we can hit the road. We are heading to the Berkshires region in western Mass. Have you been there?

I'm sorry for what happened (yes, I know...it's easy to write this from about 8000 km away)... Try to relax and do something that will take your mind off things... Go hiking, go on a trip for a few days...it will definitely help. I hope you recover from this situation soon and feel better!

I love being alive and since I discovered Bitcoin, I feel happier than ever because I am alive (allow me to highlight that I am a newcomer) and although I find it quite difficult to understand this perspective, I know that we do not all think the same or that we have the same mental abilities to lead life. It is sad to know that someone complains to remain alive, and that there are those who yearn to have a blow of life and can no longer.

Sorry Siggy. My thoughts and prayers for your family and friend.

It's hard to know what to do or say when death rears its ugly head.

I'd been in a fight with my S.O. when I read your post, and I wanted you to know that your words fell exactly when and where I needed to hear them.

You have reminded me - and maybe others - when nothing else could, that there are things more important than my own selfishness.

I'm so sorry for your and your family's losses, and for what you're dealing with with your best friend. I've lost my share of friends (and in recent years have hit the point where no one says, "wow, so young" as well), but I don't think it ever really gets easier.

Sorry Siggy. Please send your wife our condolences.

condolences on the loss @siggy47, it seems like blasts by in the blink of an eye.

i have one of those digital picture frames and everytime i see pics of the kids or even my pics from 20 years ago i think, 'fuck it seems like just yesterday'.

it's too bad about your friend as well, very sad when people have such terrible health that they just wish for death, very depressing. My nans a bit like that now and it's sad to see them suffer, even when a good chunk is self-inflicted over the years

It's hard being friends with someone who is "special needs."

I think if you are led to this and convicted that you are put in this earth to be a support for this person, then that is what you have to do.

But if it's too much, you can also know when to let go.

Or let go a bit.

Moderation in all things.

Balance is hard.

Condolences also to you and your wife.

Thank you for your work on stacker news, and I hope you will find a way back to the sunny paths.

I’m 45 this year, and knowing that a college acquaintance has passed on has been very sobering for me. I can’t imagine how you feel.

It’s both a privilege and a curse that your best friend chooses you to share his innermost intimate thoughts with. Stay connected, yet detached

My condolences to you Mr. Siggy, I hope you and your family are well.

Yes, know the feeling. Life is precious but presents many challenges. For some it gets very difficult to continue. All you can do is try to support those you care about, and take care of yourself. These days I enjoy work more than ever- when younger I mostly avoided it, but now the question is how much longer can I continue.

RIP

Sorry to hear that.

I'd hate to get negative msg from a close friend about hoping for death every day. That would weigh anyone down... Got to stay positive!