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50 sats \ 0 replies \ @cryotosensei OP 23 Jun 2024 \ parent \ on: Why territories are the best thing to happen to SN meta
Indeed, my mind has been expanded in ways I cannot fathom
In case you haven’t found out, ikigai refers to the sweet spot where your passion, ability, profession and vocation are aligned!
Oh my goodness, you are like me. Suddenly every photo n writing I have done prior to SN has turned into a sats-stacking opportunity!
Not really, but I really enjoyed reading the Housekeeper and the Professor by Yoko Ogawa. All Maths lovers should read it!
Started “The Housekeeper and the Professor” last December and finished it today. If I had concentrated fully on it, I could have finished it much earlier but you know, life happens. It’s a testimony to the power of Yoko Ogawa’s storytelling that I knew that I would definitely finish her book.
As the title suggests, this book centres around the relationship between a retired Maths professor and his housekeeper. Yoko Ogawa undoubtedly fleshed up her characters with complexities. The Maths professor met with an accident, which left him with a working memory of 80 minutes. The housekeeper is a single mother who struggles to raise her 10-year-old son who is nicknamed Root.
I think this book pays homage to the resilience of the human spirit. Even though the Professor forgets his housekeeper every morning, somehow they have come up with coping mechanisms - so well that Root regularly comes to hang out after school. The Professor is aghast that the boy is a latchkey kid and insists that the housekeeper brings him along.
In short, they are a surrogate family of three. I guess one reason why it took me so long to finish this book is that nothing major ever happens. No drama, just everyday events. (I cannot even use ‘vicissitudes of life’, much as I want to flaunt my vocabulary because this is not that kind of book.) Going to the barber, watching a live baseball match, celebrating Root’s birthday - not the climatic plot we have come to expect from page-turners.
Still, this is a book about relationships, which is something the Japanese do so well. The housekeeper grows to care about Maths through interactions with the Professor and ponders hard to solve various Maths problems. At one point, she even goes to the library to do research. The Professor is fiercely protective of Root and encourages Root to think critically and arrive at an original method of solving Maths questions. The mother-son pair do everything they can to not inform the Professor that his baseball idol has actually retired donkey years ago. The process in which they learn to support one another is heartwarming to read. I really hope there would be a movie adaptation one day.
519 sats \ 0 replies \ @cryotosensei OP 21 Jan 2024 \ parent \ on: What’s your SN routine like? meta
Cool. Because I’m like that too. I like to give a sense of closure to chats so that I don’t leave the other person hanging. The thing is, sometimes I’m preoccupied with stuff at that point in time or am just not in the mood to type. So I don’t always follow up until later. By then, the momentum will be disrupted because the other person has moved on. My bad.
I think with the 10k zap, I wanna give more attention to the comments I zap and leave more elaborated responses. It’s also to see if Stackers respond to me when I reply a couple of days later. I kinda think Stackers have the patience and stamina for on-off conversations.
And you had me googling the meaning of malfeasance. Never came across this word in squeaky clean, albeit stifling Singapore hahaha
127 sats \ 0 replies \ @cryotosensei OP 2 Mar 2024 \ parent \ on: 3-2-1 Exit Card for SN: Feb 2024 meta
Gonna start off next week being smarter!
Impressive. I also heard that the reason we blink is to give our brains some split-second rest from all the information it is processing. And that when presented with too much info, the brain resorts to identifying patterns from it all to cope.
Yes. Especially when it comes to spelling long words. Haha. I get my students to recognise patterns so that spelling becomes less daunting for them
Sorry to reply so late.
I’m feeling the second point these days. I sleep on mattresses with my two children and boy, can they sometimes roll over to my side at night! Trying to stay upbeat about this haha
134 sats \ 0 replies \ @cryotosensei OP 3 Feb 2024 \ parent \ on: Flaunt your proud parenting stories meta
I have had those sparks of brilliance too when I had to stop my son from going into full-blast tantrum mode. It’s amazing how our instincts take over our conscious mind when push comes to shove haha
You get my highest default zap amount! Such an adorable story
0 sats \ 0 replies \ @cryotosensei OP 9 Apr 2024 \ parent \ on: What’s your SN posting routine? meta
Well I’m here for the zaps and knowledge. I don’t think I need to separate them, especially when I use the zaps for beer money 🍻 haha