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Hahaha, that’s the dilemma my father always presents us with. Yes, we’ll meet good, intelligent, interesting men we’ll get along with them and think it’s just friendship but if you let your guard down or hint at something more, he’s going to take advantage of it.
So, does friendship only survive because of us women?
He could well refuse, assuming the girl only wants something carnal and not sentimental.
That’s beautiful though, of course, that’s a separate issue: a person's values and the respect they show their partner and family. I’ve heard people claim that absolutely all men are unfaithful, but I don’t agree with that; I believe there are men who have principles and are loyal.
This thought builds on the idea that men have no standards, any woman will suffice. I’m bi and I don’t secretly want to bang every single person I know.
But I’d like to twist this the other way around: why is it such a concern? Having a good friendship is already halfway of a healthy marriage, assuming the rest of the stuff works out for both of them, why not?
Why is it frowned upon for women to go out with a known, “good” man rather than diving on the cesspool of dating apps?
Do you think there’s a possibility that if you hinted to your male friends that you wanted to be intimate, they would go for it?